Seattle hates you. Legit.

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This is so true of Seattleites! (and I’m one by birth)

6 Day Forecast for Seattle

Monday 94º
Tuesday 96º
Wednesday 97º
Thursday 96º
Friday 86º
Saturday 84º

Living here has taught me that we, as Seattleites, are apparently entitled to complain about absolutely anything we want. I hate the rain! I hate the sun! All this oxygen is killing me!

Urban Dictionary gets it right:

Seattleite
1. Any person living in or within ten miles of the city of Seattle, WA.
2. Is easily agitated when tourist asks to see the original Starbucks, Microsoft or Kurt Cobain’s house. True Seattleites do not care for these things.
3. Considers Seattle to be the best city on Earth.
4. Is a pretentious coffee snob due to the thousands of delicious coffee houses and rostaries that surround them.
5. Any person who knows not to visit Pike Place Market on a Saturday.
6. Any person who was disappointed by EMP.
7. Anybody who knows that “eating dicks” means eating burgers.
8. Any person that hates it when Californians drive through Washington and cry about the rain and the cold.
9. Typically a city that is completely devoid of soccer moms.

On the 8th day God created Seattle
and on the 9th day God created the Seattleite.
On the 10th day God finally rested.

Christianity & Sexuality

I’ve been following an excellent series on a some not-often-discussed topics in Christian circles.  Follow along, it’s a multi-part series that I believe all people, in the Church and outside should look at.  We don’t discuss the matter enough, we don’t explore why things are really wrong, we simply pass down information without explanation.  God’s heart is for purity, of our heart and mind – and he’s a God who cares deeply, and wants to be personal.  He should be invited into even the most “shameful” part of our lives – and why is it shameful?  Because culture has made it shameful, Sex is created for pleasure and intimacy – yet it has been distorted in the Church and by our culture which simply makes everything revolving around it too complicated.

See parts one, two, three, and four.

NSFW: Sex and Romantic Relationships (Part 1: Introduction)

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Read it – Alexis and I thankfully had amazing mentors to discuss and learn about Sex before we got married – good stuff, helpful, and prevented a lot of frustration.

This is the first of a series of posts on the subject of sex and romantic relationships.

There is a big problem with sex in American culture. We have little heritage of sex wisdom handed down from generation to generation. I want to start practicing articulating sex wisdom, so that I can be a source to others, who probably won’t have many other sources of wisdom along their path.

Honest discussion of sex is a taboo subject, in general, in Western Christian culture. This may be because we think discussion of sex will lead to promiscuity, akin to how discussion of food will lead to eating… …?

In any case, I was ill-equipped for sex by the time I had sex for the first time, the day or two after my wedding. On one hand, there’s no amount of information that can replace practice. On the other hand, information helps. My wife shares my experience. Lydia has described it this way: it felt like we were the very first humans, figuring things out for the first time. It’s good to figure things out, but it’s not good when my expectations form a rigid environment (sex was not like I see it in the movies). Some couples have good initial sex experiences, and some don’t.

…not that this series is about how to have sex. It’s about sex, but sex is broad and complex. Sexuality is integral to married relationship, and to every-day living with our bodies. Talking about it is worth the discomfort because having a healthy sexuality is wonderful, satisfying, and important.

I, for one, wish that others (my elders) would have breached the subject of sex (more often, and at all) with me. I know it’s awkward and uncomfortable, and I wouldn’t have responded gracefully, but it would have been worth it. My sex education came to me in Middle School, and it was very scientific in presentation. Otherwise my sex education came to me on magazine covers, movies, and jokes from other boys (who didn’t have the slightest clue about sex, let alone healthy sex(uality). I will not let these sources be the only sex teachers for my children.

This series is consciously and unconsciously directed toward an audience of American Christian teenagers, although I think there will be tidbits for everyone who will have a read. This decision is a little silly, since most of my readers are older than teenagers (the truth is that I’m volunteering with high schoolers and we’re on the topic of sex. I want to practice articulating some things here). Also, I’m a male, and I’ll be writing this with only editorial help from Lydia. That means this comes from a male perspective. If you’re a female, by all means read this, but also consider joining Lydia’s Facebook group The Red Tent (link coming soon), which is a female-only discussion environment about sex.

As for discussion here, I humbly request that you be more vocal than you would normally be. Even if you have a passing comment or question, please post it in the comments. This is because I’m trying to collect sex wisdom, for the benefit of future generations. However, you may post anonymously. You must enter an email address (which never is made public), and if you don’t want me to know who you are, enter your email address as anon@anon.com. After I allow the first comment from that email address, all others will automatically be posted. Thanks.

There is so much information to cover… I don’t intend to cover everything, or be able to. And watch out: some of my posts will have discernible endings and main points, while others will leave you in the middle of nowhere. Welcome to love.

As if I’m an expert…

Marcy Playground – Sex And Candy

Lovers

A good kind of daily torture…

I have been doing a lot of reading lately, I’m reading my second Don Miller book – “Searching for God knows what” – and a lot of things on the Internet in the same thread as the social justice movement in and out of the church, and those kinds of things.

So now when I ride the train each day I am moved to look at people the way God does – and it humbles me, and tortures me daily.  I’m tortured by the fact that when you think about how God must love the people around you, and you hear, and see how other people treat them, all you can do is begin to imagine how God feels for us.  His love is torturing me, everyday.  I’m okay with this.

I’ve been praying for God to give me his eyes for those around me, and now I see it everyday – and it’s my heart that sees people more clearly each day.  Now I want the words, praying is great, but an encounter with God is better.

Church as Art. Church as Community. Church as Transformation.

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What is Church? Check out the whole article here: http://www.theooze.com/articles/article.cfm?id=2198

As we try, together, to imagine and experience what a fresh expression of the church could look like in our context, culture, and community, I believe that metaphors are going to be important. They’ll help us look at things with a sense of focus and clarity without becoming dogmatic or rigid. They’ll create a channel for our little group of friends to flow forward with and push up against. They’ll enable us to hold our ideas loosely and with generosity being lost in a sense of adventure.

Dear Church Member,

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Amen – Make it so!

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(This is not written to anyone in particular. Rather to every church member of every church out there)

You may like the way your worship leader sings.
You may like the way your worship leader looks.
You may like what your worship leader says.
You may like the songs your worship leader writes.
All that is dandy.
It is great to feel those nice, pretty, shiney things.

But it is not about you.

It is not about your likes, needs, and comfort at all.
The reason they stand before you is to lead you to a place of unabandoned worship in your Savior.
The reason they stand before you is to display to you a lifestyle of worship that God has called you and them into.
The reason they stand before you is to CHALLENGE you that your level of praise to God Almighty should take a step up.
The reason they stand before you is because God Himself, has called them, TO LEAD YOU in worship.
This means that you need leading.
So stop staring at them, and start following them.

Get The Jonas Brothers and Miley Cyrus to lead worship at your church if you’re in it for kicks and giggles.
But if you are in it to be led…
Swallow your pride and follow your leader.
Los
My Thought’s For The Worship Leader…Click Here

USING THE "S-WORD" IN CHURCH

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Our culture has a lot of issues tied to money – give this article a read and see what creative solutions there may be.

Full article here: http://www.theooze.com/articles/article.cfm?id=2162

Go to church for very long, and you are bound to hear someone utter the ‘s-word’ in church. By that I mean stewardship. We often cringe when the conversation of increasing our giving comes up, especially in challenging economic times. Jesus challenges us to break away from the consumer-driven mentality that so permeates our culture and to embrace the ‘God-reality’ that he describes in the Sermon on the Mount. As we do this we find that our perspective on giving (and on life in general) changes. We put God’s portion aside first, regardless of the economy or other life circumstances.

The Hansen Report: The Day After

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We have a lot to learn as Christians and what the Kingdom of God is really about – for me it has never been about America and never will be – I love being an American, I thank God for the freedoms I am given in this nation, but I live in God’s kingdom, and live by His principles, not man’s nor America’s.  We must stop trying to legislate morality, and begin expressing where true freedom comes from – knowing Jesus – and out of that real change will happen in the individual, and the fabric of our communities will change.

The following comes from: http://blog.christianitytoday.com/outofur/archives/2008/11/the_hansen_repo.html

The view of America from Manhattan was pretty bleak on the morning after November 2, 2004. New York Times columnist Thomas Friedman, typically a levelheaded observer of world affairs, watched America become “two nations under God.”

“We don’t just disagree on what America should be doing; we disagree on what America is,” Friedman wrote about the “Christian fundamentalists” who helped propel President Bush to reelection against Sen. John Kerry. “Is it a country that does not intrude into people’s sexual preferences and the marriage unions they want to make? Is it a country that allows a woman to have control over her body? Is it a country where the line between church and state bequeathed to us by our Founding Fathers should be inviolate? Is it a country where religion doesn’t trump science? And, most important, is it a country whose president mobilizes its deep moral energies to unite us—instead of dividing us from one another and from the world?”

The view north of Chicago in Evanston, Illinois, was even more ominous. Northwestern University adjunct history professor Garry Wills declared November 2, 2004, “the day the enlightenment went out.” No longer did America take after France, Britain, Germany, Italy or Spain. No, Bush’s America harbored “fundamentalist zeal, a rage at secularity, religious intolerance, fear of and hatred for modernity.” In short, the new America shared more in common with Al Qaeda and Saddam Hussein’s Sunni loyalists. Christian fundamentalists, still fuming over the embarrassment of the Scopes trial in 1925, had finally enacted a jihad Wills dubbed “Bryan’s revenge.” Now these Christians would be able to impose their irrational, bigoted opposition to abortion and same-sex marriage. Thinkers like Wills could only ask: “Can a people that believes more fervently in the Virgin Birth than in evolution still be called an Enlightened nation?”

Four years later, perhaps Wills can answer this question more to his liking. If Sen. Barack Obama defeats Sen. John McCain on Tuesday, does that mean the Enlightenment’s flame has been rekindled? Has science won the tug-of-war with religion? Would Friedman conclude that two Americas have become one again?

Elections make intelligent people say and do unintelligent things. But they also make faithful people talk and act as if they had little faith. Focus on the Family Action is circulating a hypothetical letter from 2012 that explains how the United States has changed in President Obama’s first term. According to Focus on the Family Action, Obama rallied support from Democratic majorities in the Senate and House of Representatives to mandate same-sex marriage across the country, eliminate restrictions on abortion, and reinforce the wall that separates church from state. Each of these developments is plausible, given Obama’s track record and campaign statements.

But Focus on the Family Action goes further. They speculate that “Campus Crusade for Christ, InterVarsity, Navigators, Baptist Campus Ministry, and Reformed University Fellowship have shrunk to mere skeleton organizations, and in many states they have simply ceased to exist” due to restrictions on “hate speech” including opposition to homosexuality. In response to new educational standards, many home-school families have emigrated to Australia and New Zealand. Some Christian publishers have gone out of business, since protests have led many chains and Amazon.com to ban their books. Christians can hardly work in the health-care industry, since they can no longer opt out of procedures that violate their consciences. On top of everything else, inner-city violence has increased, because private citizens of eights states can no longer bear arms.

Who’s to blame for this doomsday scenario? Focus on the Family Actions tells us that many evangelicals voted for Obama since they wanted change and didn’t understand his true agenda. Yet despite their culpability in the horror unleashed in 2008, “Christians on both sides should continue to respect and cherish each other’s friendship as well as the freedom people have in the United States to differ on these issues and to freely speak our opinions about them to one another,” Focus on the Family Action writes.

At this point, you might wonder where trust in a sovereign God fits in this scenario. Indeed, Focus’s hypothetical “Christian from 2012” writes, “Personally, I don’t know how we are going to get through tomorrow, for these are difficult times.” And yet the writer could affirm, “I still believe that God is sovereign over all history, and though I don’t know why he has allowed these events to come about, it is still his purpose that will ultimately be accomplished.”

Perhaps this profession of faith would ring true if the letter were true. But as a projection of conservative Christians’ greatest fears before the fact, the letter stokes fear and encourages faith in government as the ultimate arena for advancing the gospel and promoting biblical morality. It tempts Christians to hope and trust in government as if they were the very progressives Focus decries, the ones who have leveraged political power in recent decades to advance their social agenda with and without popular support.

The Sunday after Election Day, many evangelicals may feel as if they have lost hope. Some may rejoice with hope they never even feel in God. Maybe everyone will still be shocked by an unexpected election result. No matter what happens, pastors can reassure church members that “there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God” (Rom. 13:1). No matter who becomes the next president, he won’t be more hostile to the Christian faith than Emperor Nero, who ruled over the Roman Christians who received this letter. And yet the apostle Paul told them “he is God’s servant for your good” (Rom. 13:4).

Faith is not blind hope that everything will turn out okay. This election will affect how Christians live among their neighbors for decades to come, for better and worse. But faith must at least lead Christians to leave the scare tactics to the skeptics.

 

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